Lowkey
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Kinda feel like maybe I’m meant to just be in the closet forever bc I like tried to casually tell my brother earlier (who’s so liberal and chill) and prob the only person in my family who wouldn’t care and still love me but when we got ice cream and then once we actually went out I was like yup there’s zero chance I’m doing that and Ik he won’t care but also like the main stuff we talk about is football and girls so it just feels like half my life is a lie to him and Ik if i tell him I can’t just take it back. Anyway ignore this, I prob need therapy or smth but I don’t believe in that.
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I was closeted until my best mate confronted me asking if I was gay. I panicked and before I could think I said yes. After doing so I knew there was no going back and so I told those closest to me who I had always been afraid to tell. The freedom and happiness I felt after was immense. It lifted so much weight off my shoulders. I understand not everyone's situation is the same, so you do what your gut tells you. Although, I believe that anyone who truly love you will feel touched that you would share your true self with them.
Ive never been in your exact shoes but have been around the sun enough times to know that the things most important to us are often the hardest vulnerabilities to share. I also know often our inner dialogue of disaster scenarios is often the harshest critic. I wish you gentleness and peace as you find the right time to share and hope its more freeing than you could ever imagine when you do ❤️ I dont think we have met but feel free to inbox me if you need an ear!
Just rip the band-aid off and do it! You'lll be glad you did!
Mp231 ik i gotta force myself to do it, it’s just so terrifying idk
yawnha It is but you'll be glad you did! Start with the person you trust the most and go from there
chances are he probably knows and is waiting for you to come clean to him and he’s respecting your space
Glitter in a way I really hope he doesn’t and the way he gives me hours of advice on girls all the time idk