Also one last note

can we please stop using words / implying things that are PERMANENTLY harmful? Just like as a community. Someone trying to correct your behavior/call you out for bad behavior is not bullying. You can feel bullied thats absolutely true! You can also feel like god is speaking to you through the phone and telling you that the church is trying to sell your body to satan. That does not make it true. Feelings are important, but not always fact!!! Someone telling you you acted out of line one time last week because you were acting weird is not racist and you shouldn't imply it is? If it actually is, and someone meant that! That's really shitty! Use the report button! Racism isn't allowed here. If it wasn't intentional and was perhaps a microaggression, explain it to them maybe? They might not know. Shit like that is actually like permanently harmful and throwing it around so casually without being sure/standing on that is fucking WEIRD.