In regards to this site and generally 1) it’s filled with sad little gay people who have serious mental problems. Just like many online spaces, you should not be taking the internet seriously. This sounds obvious but I feel like a lot of people hear this and still take everything so seriously. 2) if you get upset over losing a game or who saves who or your “friend” not valuing you enough in the game, then you’re probably not having fun. The game is probably stressing you out more than you are enjoying it. You should be having FUN. 3) if someone who you don’t really know or care for makes a comment about you and you genuinely get upset about it (obviously there are levels to this, I’m not referring to vicious personal attacks) then you need to reflect on why you’re letting opinions from random (probably mentally ill) strangers affect you 4) obviously we all want to be liked and no one likes being hated. but if you’ve come to a random online site seeking validation and/or attention then you are likely not going to have a good time here (and you should work on yourself ❤️) #bringbackFUN