how is it transphobic?
but I do think the rules on things outside of the website do need to be more clear / should result in a warning like daze said if its something small
Lover banning a trans woman for saying that slur OUTSIDE of the website feels targeted in this context. She didn't say it on the site itself so her being banned by a gay man for saying it to a gay man just circles back to feeling misogynistic and transphobic, holding a trans woman to higher standards at the expense of a man.
SpaceLab It is 100% not transphobia though, it's just her breaking the rules (that no one really knows are rules in the first place, which is the actual problem here.) While I agree that misogyny / transphobia are extremely common and are big problems, that's definitely not what happened so it's kinda wild/unfair to jump to that
Anyone would've been banned for that, because it's against the rules. But I do think the rules need to be more clear, and this 1000% should've resulted in a warning bc like I said above, barely anybody knows about the discord based rules
SpaceLab I just think that's unfair to the mods, it obviously had nothing to do with that, it's a rule and if reported, the mods are *REQUIRED* to do something about it because it breaks the rules. If I did it, I'd be banned, if you did, you'd be banned, anyone would be banned. I support Deena through anything though and fully believe she should be unbanned
But I don't think you should be saying that because that's an extreme accusation based off of absolutely nothing
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Banning someone from saying something outside of Kovaze is ridiculous bruh
sorry we’re being banned by activity outside the site now?
how is it transphobic? but I do think the rules on things outside of the website do need to be more clear / should result in a warning like daze said if its something small
Lover banning a trans woman for saying that slur OUTSIDE of the website feels targeted in this context. She didn't say it on the site itself so her being banned by a gay man for saying it to a gay man just circles back to feeling misogynistic and transphobic, holding a trans woman to higher standards at the expense of a man.
SpaceLab yep yep yep it always comes down to misogyny at the end of the day every time
SpaceLab It is 100% not transphobia though, it's just her breaking the rules (that no one really knows are rules in the first place, which is the actual problem here.) While I agree that misogyny / transphobia are extremely common and are big problems, that's definitely not what happened so it's kinda wild/unfair to jump to that Anyone would've been banned for that, because it's against the rules. But I do think the rules need to be more clear, and this 1000% should've resulted in a warning bc like I said above, barely anybody knows about the discord based rules
Lover you don't get to police what people feel is or isn't transphobic lol.
SpaceLab I just think that's unfair to the mods, it obviously had nothing to do with that, it's a rule and if reported, the mods are *REQUIRED* to do something about it because it breaks the rules. If I did it, I'd be banned, if you did, you'd be banned, anyone would be banned. I support Deena through anything though and fully believe she should be unbanned But I don't think you should be saying that because that's an extreme accusation based off of absolutely nothing
I got banned for it too and nonbinary so it’s all fucked up.
death_metal and I’m nonbinary*
She said it outside kovaze.com?
alicat yes she said it on discord lol
SpaceLab oh lord have mercy
oh you ate
she didnt know it wasnt allowed either so I feel like a warning would've sufficed if its not allowed
PLS STFU!