Bullying and Harassment

flamerosemulet 11th of October 2025

There were a group of people that joined this game for no other reason but to gang up against me, nominating me every day, and they openly admitted to it, How do the mods plan on addressing this? Can we send a message that this is unacceptable behavior? How can we ensure that Kovaze doesn't become another breeding ground for this horrific behavoir like Tengaged was? The Game: https://www.kovaze.com/arena/1028 kovaze MOD_Clarke MOD_Raven P.S. I'm not leaving. Because what message does that send? That I should have to suffer because these people refuse to be normal about me? I'm gonna persist so you will be forced to see me as a human being and recongize that what you are doing is wrong. Backstory: I got groomed on tengaged when I was 15, I had someone hack my account and then refuse to give it back unless I did sexual things on camera for them. They knew my age. I had someone make a vlog about me when I was 15 about how I needed to slut myself up in order to be popular. It was a top blog, with many users agreeing with the advice, and praising the person who created it. These are just a few examples of what I dealt with over YEARS. The entire website watched me get groomed. I was taught that I needed to do these things to be liked, and even when people saw an issue, I was always the one blamed for it, not the people who groomed me. Even though I was a MINOR when all of this happened, and people had no idea how bad it really was. So as a result I did say a bunch of weird shit as a minor BECAUSE I was groomed. I coped in weird ways. I was desensitized to SA and all of that BECAUSE of tengaged and everyone downplaying what happened to me at the time, and the only explaination I could come up with was that it wasn't a big deal. No one treated it as a big deal. So I internalized it. That was how I coped with what happened to me. And now everyone for nearly a decade everyone has been treating me like I'm the problem while refusing to see me as a human being. All of this is deeply traumatizing to me and I wish I didn't have to constantly relive it.
15 votes, -4 points

Comments



rosemulet you don't deserve to be punished ... you've been through so much and it's bound to mentally do damage and have bad effect on your life I feel professional help would help you talk about your issues with people trained in this field. Rooting for you girl!

By flameFairytales,

11th of October 2025

I hate the message that I'm the crazy one, I'm not. That I'm the one who needs to be punished, they do fairytales thanks though

By flamerosemulet,

11th of October 2025

I am so sorry Rose that this happened and I am saying this as a friend but you need professional help you aren't well at all and you need to heal. I feel this site isn't the right place for you in your mental state at the moment I feel it's just going to make you worse and spiral.

By flameFairytales,

11th of October 2025