apples are not oranges

we cannot compare the 2. I have made peace with mattychamps mostly and I recognize I crashed out. I am not immune to crashing out! However, the way I talk to people will never equate what I have seen recently. I try to keep it REMOTELY (read remotely) classy in public and when I tell a trusted friend something and they use it to underhandedly drag me in a blog because they feel compelled to be involved in everything, that's where I draw the line. I also can face criticism! When someone tells me i acted the fool, I will take that in, try to correct it and do better!!!! We cannot just be enablers all the fucking time.