having 2 boyfriends
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having 2 boyfriends
is a very odd thing for me bc I don't consider myself polyamorous? or at least havent until very recently, I'm still pretty uncomfortable with the term? Idk how else to describe it though. But the main thing I struggle with is like language like I can't tell one 'youre the best boyfriend ever' because then I feel like I'm implying the other one isn't if they can both hear me and they both are LMAOOOO so I'm like hey what the fuck do I say.
Like there are so many little affectionate things I just think to say that im like oh that might make the other one feel like shit if he heard it even tho I do NOT mean it in that way.
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Oh you have been serious about about having 2 bf’s I thought it was a joke..: how did this happen ?
Venom take notes
Venom yeah its been not a joke
Yes I totally think the key to polyamory (or having more than one partner) is having a knack for being able to make everyone feel included and equally special. But also just being really conscious with your words, especially when both of them are around. Both should feel that you love them just as much as the other. I’m so pro polyamory cuz I know I’d be so bomb at that lolol
Mochalatte they are both like fairly low effort men so its like....combined its the effort of 1 guy idk
This is like when I tell Chip he's the cutest puppy in the world and I have to reassure Sage that she is the prettiest beagle lady
Cherry no kind of like I can't tell one that hes the love of my life because it implies the other is not and Im like no you both can be its ok. Like I have to figure out how to water both plants at once.
Dakota honestly sounds exhausting LMAO
Cherry genuinely neither care and im the only one worried about it so thats on me LMAO
i’m so happy for you and Misery
Space wrong!
Dakota space he doesn’t claim me anymore