being the aggressor

is not defending yourself btw i hope this helps bc once again I have the blog filtered but I still saw it appear lmao. Like never once apologizing for your actions and words is not an accident. Telling me I am so fat that I will get diabetes and die is not an accident. So to then message me and tell me 'you didn't mean me' but like...that doesn't make it better??? I will say: Nenalala I am sorry that you feel I am attacking you. I AM actually the one defending myself. See how there are 2 people relentlessly calling me fat ugly and smelly constantly and I am one person speaking up about it? That is defending myself. I also do not reuse the same canned response constantly. So again, maybe don't throw rocks when you live in a glass house (1 season reality show that was then cancelled)