So like I have a friend

Who since high school has not done a single thing to advance his life. He hasn’t worked, gone to college, we taught him how to drive but he never got his license or a car. His mom, uncle, and grandma all passed away in the last few years and he got money from that to live well for a while and I believe he’s using it to stay within means but he’s still quite unable to do much. He’s staying with his sister right now nearish to where me and my friends still live and we’re going to brunch this morning, but he asked us if we could give him a ride. We all checked and it’s 40 minutes past the restaurant in the opposite direction where we all live. Like I get he’s had a lot of issues and reasons why he’s in this position but at 31 years old I would have expected him to kind of figure it out at this point.