Meetup or so I thought…

It's a techno music festival this weekend in Detroit, and a lot of people are coming to visit. We are at a venue, waiting in line for the little girls' room. My dark-skinned, pretty black friend with hot-pink hair was with me, so a lot of people started talking to us. In front of us is this short, bald guy who turns around and starts talking to us. I was like This guy looks familiar, but I can't put my finger on it just yet. When he opened his mouth, it was like a mix of Aave, South, New York, and I was like omg this might be Constance Marie! He had a buck in his teeth, lost a bunch of weight, so I was like, this can easily be him. He was talking about being in an open marriage (shocker), showed us a pic of his husband and some black twink (nsfw), and then started talking about how he'd shown his coworker that pic. He said she's a black lady, and when she saw it, she said, “I didn't know y'all were into the (n word hard r) dicks” and he quite literally said it with his chest, and my friend obviously got mad. He also kept following us around, which gave Constance energy, so I assumed it was him, but a second source said he's in Ohio, so tbd