Chilltown — saying “I’m not drinking the Kool-Aid” about nonbinary people is offensive because it frames real identities as a delusion or cult. Pronouns aren’t ideology or propaganda; they’re how people identify and ask for basic respect. In 2025, with nonbinary people already facing intense stigma, that language isn’t neutral—it reinforces harm. Respect isn’t “Kool-Aid,” it’s dignity.
I’m tired of the endless excuses, the performative confidence, and the way accountability magically disappears the moment results are due, because it’s exhausting watching people talk loud while moving nowhere. You want credit for effort but dodge responsibility for outcomes, you preach standards you don’t meet, and you mistake noise for impact while everyone else carries the weight. This isn’t passion, it’s deflection, and it’s long past time someone said it plainly: step up, follow through, or get out of the way, because the gap between what you claim and what you deliver is obvious to anyone paying attention—clock it.
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Thanks my saveds ♡
By
Daleariel,
3 days ago
By a vote of 5 to 4, Chilltown You have been evicted from Frenzy.
3 days ago
KnowUh has been selected as Head of Household!
3 days ago
why can’t it be Kool Aid Person?? I’m so fucking furious
By
Mackey,
3 days ago
Good luck everyone
By
MessyJ,
3 days ago
Chilltown — saying “I’m not drinking the Kool-Aid” about nonbinary people is offensive because it frames real identities as a delusion or cult. Pronouns aren’t ideology or propaganda; they’re how people identify and ask for basic respect. In 2025, with nonbinary people already facing intense stigma, that language isn’t neutral—it reinforces harm. Respect isn’t “Kool-Aid,” it’s dignity.
By
squeej,
3 days ago
Sorry i dont undestad
By
Daleariel,
3 days ago
Saved ;)
By
Lennin157_,
3 days ago
Knowuh are you here?
By
MessyJ,
3 days ago
I am an ally of humanity & love in any form
By
Luna,
3 days ago
I’m tired of the endless excuses, the performative confidence, and the way accountability magically disappears the moment results are due, because it’s exhausting watching people talk loud while moving nowhere. You want credit for effort but dodge responsibility for outcomes, you preach standards you don’t meet, and you mistake noise for impact while everyone else carries the weight. This isn’t passion, it’s deflection, and it’s long past time someone said it plainly: step up, follow through, or get out of the way, because the gap between what you claim and what you deliver is obvious to anyone paying attention—clock it.
By
v_sh,
3 days ago
By
Lifeiscool,
3 days ago
Oh came back just in time
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JJRED45,
3 days ago
we are just joking king ily dale
By
Mackey,
3 days ago
look at me all you want im not drinking the kool aid
By
Chilltown,
3 days ago
this site getting to much for me lol. Who gave this one a soap box By Chilltown, 2 minutes ago
By
squeej,
3 days ago
Ty all for the support <3 I wanted to use this HOH to spread awareness and to reveal some of the bigotry hidden in this site. *Looks at Chilltown*
By
squeej,
3 days ago
i’m not binary.
By
Mackey,
3 days ago
Gl Dale
By
Chilltown,
3 days ago
I said wrong? Sorry i speak spanish
By
Daleariel,
3 days ago