Regarding these messy top blogs,

People always gonna be problematic as hell and do and say immature shit, but I think there’s a pretty distinctive line between like, being a shitty person in some instances, and then just straight up engaging in like illegal or irredeemable activities and ppl rly need to not put everything in the same like rubric of judging I’ll take someone calling me some terrible names years ago or engaging in a 10 dollar transactional scam over literal pedophilia any day, and that’s not to lessen anyone’s experiences I just think some things r deserving of forgiveness or even just chalking it up to a learning experience and a shitty person to not engage with, and some things are just so obviously not lol Edit: to be clear the grooming blogs/pedophilia/personal threats of doxxing and all that = horrific and the other shit = not even on the same level