While we’re on the topic

Of bullies and playing the victim Sam it’s honestly wild to watch you bully people and then somehow turn around and act like you’re the victim. You have no problem dishing it out, making comments, pushing people’s buttons, and creating unnecessary drama, but the second someone calls you out on your behaviour, suddenly you’re the one who’s been wronged. That isn’t being misunderstood, that’s avoiding accountability. What makes it worse is that you seem to genuinely believe that playing the victim somehow erases what you did in the first place. You can’t spend all your time provoking people and then act shocked when someone finally stands up for themselves. You don’t get to rewrite the situation just because you don’t like how it makes you look. If you want people to treat you with respect, maybe start by giving them the same respect you expect for yourself. At the end of the day, Sam, nobody is asking you to be perfect. Just own your shit. If you said something hurtful, admit it. If you crossed a line, acknowledge it. But constantly bullying people and then hiding behind the victim card when there are consequences is exhausting. You can’t be the bully and the victim every time, eventually you have to decide whether you actually want to take responsibility for your behaviour.