There's no winning for women

on the Real Housewives of Orange County, especially once you're Asian. Yesterday I got shit thrown at me for contacting Kiki Monique, and for defeating my purpose in life by not having LGBT children (something my kids chose not to do. Honestly, idk why you guys think it's hard for a woman to have straight kids. It's really, really not. Have you ever MET a straight man, Heather Dubrow?) And then today (and let's be honest, most days) my friend Tamra Judge gets attacked for carrying the show. Damned either way. How about we just let women live their lives the way they want, no matter what? And you can call me performative, but anyone who has ever encountered me knows I've endured this kind of shit monthly and have for years.