aiming too high is the problem

That's why the problem is that I aim very high in every sense, especially in terms of the beauty of women in my social class and particularly in terms of their cool personalities. In of their social class , I'm average in looks,in physical appearance below average, and above all, I'm very nervous and not very outgoing. Therefore, I need to aim for and acknowledge my shortcomings by looking for a more average girl and not think that wearing a $1000 suit solves everything. The girls in my community tend to be very rich and spoiled, but I wasn't spoiled; my father mistreated me a lot, which is why I turned out so nervous and don't fit in with them. It's time to adapt and look for girls similar to me, not perfect ones.