Okay now I am HEATED

If I say I am offended by something, and your response is "you're friends with people who have said worse things" you are missing the point, as well as being completely oblivious to my character. It's true, sometimes my friends say shitty things. And I hold them accountable, right to their faces all the time. Life is not a series of "gotcha" moments, nor should women be held accountable for the actions of other people.