Message to the young generation

If you thinking having kids eventually be sure to be there for them ...not half time ...its a full time work. I have 2 kids with the same person (sorry can't call him a father) he abandoned them 7 years ago ...no call nothing. It affect them even today ...my younger kids just gave me a family drawing and he still draw his father next to us. It's so sad. A mother is important but a father is important as much as the mom. I can do both roles for some part but not everything. Having kids is a choice for an entire life with lots of responsibilities.