pt 2: date with a girl
here is pt 1 for anyone wondering:) the homophobes also found it i think but oh well!
https://kovaze.com/blog/120871
so i just got back home from the date and i honestly had an amazing time.. we went to a lowkey tapas restaurant, it wasnt like a super serious romantic setting but for the first date it was more than perfect. i loveee the lwk setting esp cause its also meeting for the first timw yk and esp with how sudden and spontaneous the plan was, but im all in for spontaneous plans. so we talked non stop honestly, about anything and everything. life, work, school, living situations and what not. like all the general talks! we also spoke about past relationships, how we view relationships and such and all our views alligned pretty much. like when i said that sometimes my bad trait is that i expect princess treatment at all times and it makes me annoyed when i don’t, she was like but that’s what a girl deserves and i was like YES EXACTLYYYY!!!! i also feel like theres such a burden of my shoulders after this date bc you know, it’s literally the start of my coming out. right now i’m just taking things in, processing still but i definitely would love to see her again. it was just rlly nice and idk like its one of the final pushes i needed for being open about my sexuality n such. but yes!! i’ll keep you updated if theres gonna be a second date…
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Aww I'm glad it went well! And I completely get what you mean about labels and stuff. I rarely use them for myself personally, like I think they are important as a whole and help people with their identity but I also don't feel like it's necessary for everyone.
Benopolis LOL
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