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So basically I’m in this friend group. I live in a relatively big city. And like not trying to brag but I’ve always been “popular” never discluded. Well this friend group has an inner group chat without me. And I’m super hurt honestly. They’ll bring it up in front of me. Do I…
1. Ask to be added
2. Stop hanging out w them completely
3. Play dumb and don’t acknowledge it.
7 votes, 85 points
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if being left out is making you feel super hurt its probably best for your mental health if you dont hang out with them as much, maybe talk to the person you feel closest too about it. hash it out and maybe see why they didnt add you in the first place:D
I've been in the same situation. I played dumb and didn't acknowledge it at first, but then one night someone I met added me to the group chat! I would say it depends on your confrontation level and how you feel comfortable approaching it. Best of luck.
the real option isnt here -- i'd talk to them or atleast whoever your closest to in the group explaining how you feel disincluded and get their perspective as to why you think they wouldnt have put you in there in the first place
Kallie girl I agree but I’m scared! But ur so right
i stopped at "im in this friend group" because i was honestly surprised good for u for defeating expectations
MaxOra girl u don’t know me irl nor do i know u at all but im in like 5 dif friend groups
spartagow oh! it was not meant to be offensive, my bad! but honestly 3. you're so lucky you're popular!
MaxOra oh girl I thought u were throwing shade. Clearly I’m like flopping irl lately and spiraling LOL
spartagow no problem! that's a common problem for popular people! i must not have that! have a wonderful evening, spartagow! :)
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